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Andra Wilfort

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October 1, 1944 – May 26, 2026

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Andra Wilfort Wallace, known throughout her life for her warmth, laughter, and generous spirit, was born on October 1, 1944, and leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, unwavering devotion to family and friends, and countless cherished memories.

Raised in Kirkwood, Missouri, Andra graduated from Soldan High School, a St. Louis City Public School, in 1963. Throughout her life, she was known for her vibrant personality, kind heart, and remarkable ability to make everyone feel welcome.

Andra was a dedicated employee wherever she worked and took great pride in serving others. She often shared fond memories of her time at Petrosky Bakery and spent many years as a cook with Host International at St. Louis Lambert International Airport. Known for her strong work ethic, vibrant personality, and willingness to help others, she earned the respect and admiration of her coworkers, who affectionately referred to her as “OG.”

It was during her time at Host International that she met the love of her life, Danny Shafer. United in holy matrimony in May 1995, the two shared more than three decades of love, companionship, laughter, and cherished memories together. Danny affectionately called her “Andy Bop,” a nickname born from the friendship, devotion, and joy that defined their relationship. Over time, the nickname naturally shortened, but its meaning never changed.

To know Andra was to love her. She was the life of the party, full of laughter, quick comebacks, and playful antics that could brighten even the most ordinary day. She never met a stranger and possessed a special gift for making people feel welcome, loved, and included.

Whether she was dancing to her favorite music, playing bingo, cooking meals for family and friends, feeding the birds on her patio, or simply being her silly self, Andra embraced life with joy and enthusiasm. Her infectious smile and spirited personality created countless memories that will be cherished by all who knew her. She believed life was meant to be enjoyed and rarely missed an opportunity to laugh, tell a story, or bring a smile to someone else’s face.

Her nurturing nature extended far beyond her immediate family. During retirement, she lovingly cared for many children and became a mother figure to countless others who affectionately called her “Momma.” Family was never defined by blood alone in Andra’s eyes. She welcomed people into her heart, her home, and her life, leaving a lasting impact on generations of children, friends, and loved ones.

Andra was preceded in death by her mother, Joyce Elaizer Wallace; her father; and her sister, Sandra “Sandy” Mahr.

Andra leaves to cherish her memory her devoted husband, Danny Shafer; her children, Henry Green (Janis), Andrew Green, and Spencer Green; her bonus daughter, LaShana Thornhill, whom she loved as her own; her siblings, Pamela Murray and Walter “Pete” Wallace IV; her grandsons, Jarvis Green, Brandon Partee Bailey, and Andrew Christian Green; her great-granddaughter, Jianna; and a host of nieces, nephews, extended family members, dear friends, bonus children, and loved ones whose lives were forever touched by her kindness and love.

Though the Lord has called Andra home, the memories she created, the laughter she shared, and the love she poured into others will remain in the hearts of all who knew and loved her. She will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and forever cherished by those blessed to have shared in her life’s journey.


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